If She Has Yet To Orgasm
First of all I commend you on undertaking the task of giving the gift of orgasm to a newb. Seriously, it’s impressive. There are a lot of guys out there that want nothing to do with a woman that has yet to orgasm. Those cowards aren’t up to the challenge, but not you! You’re a real ass man.
Please be aware that some women just aren’t ready to let themselves go there. You can’t make her cum if she won’t allow it. She might need emotional healing before it’s possible for her, and that’s okay. You being willing to explore her O with her in a supportive, caring, and patient way may be just the thing that helps her get to that place.
Oftentimes there are a million things running through a woman’s mind when she’s in the middle of a sex act. “Do I look okay?” “Does he think I’m a slut?” “What is he thinking?” “What would our kids look like?” Dumb shit. Well she’s never going to cum thinking about all that dumb shit. So it might help for her to try this technique to help quiet her mind and FEEL. It’s called Orgasmic Meditation (OM). She can’t do it without you though. It’s a partnered practice that requires a man.
OM is taught by a company called One Taste. You can learn all about it on their website here. They even have a free video that teaches you how to do it.
Something to keep in mind is that people are into ALL KINDS OF CRAZY THINGS. Some people are turned on by feet, getting caught, bondage, pain, pee, being gagged, full body latex, or strangers. Some women like to hear you call them a dirty little slut. Some women want to pretend they’re someone else. Some like to watch while others like to be watched. So she might just need to explore her kinky side to get really turned on.
As I’ve mentioned in other places on this blog, a lot of women have been taught by society that it’s bad to indulge in and explore their sexuality, so you’ll want to be patient and nonjudgmental as she discovers her kinks.