Pussy Play

Once you have her turned on and warmed up, you can move to her vaginal vicinity. Yay! There are two areas you’re ultimately going to be most focused on here: her clitoris and/or her g spot.  These two spots are your DESTINATIONS, so sometimes you don’t want to go straight there, and you want to make the journey part of the fun.

Again, we’re building tension and excitement. Most women like at least a little teasing before you go in for the stroke. So tease her a bit. But once you start that stroke, the teasing is pretty much over.

Whether you’re stroking her clit or her g spot, the two most important things here are RHYTHM and CONSISTENCY. I want to slap whoever is going around telling guys to spell the alphabet with their tongue when giving oral. Fuck that guy (because it was obviously not a woman).

Don’t get me wrong variety has its place. Some women like you to switch up the stroke more than others, but some consistency is required.

Once again this a reminder that each woman is unique in her personal preferences. The best way to know exactly the way your lady likes it is to talk about it and explore with her.

But keep in mind that a lot of women have trouble talking about what they like, even with their boyfriends and husbands. If you’re interested in helping her open up, click here.

Regardless of whether you’re willing or able to get her explicit input, you can still achieve success by reading on and gauging her reactions to your touch.

I am neither a doctor nor a sexpert. I’m just a chick with a passion for orgasm. My mission is for women to get off more and more... and more.

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