Mentally & Emotionally Excite

Create connection.

Connect with her first.  How to connect with a woman is going to be unique to her. In fact, you’re going to find this point to be a running theme throughout this advice. Because each woman is unique, another running theme you’ll see is the power and importance of communication. Communication is the key to learning her preferences as well as connecting with her.

Learning exactly how to connect with a woman and how to be the most effective at it is a field of study all its own. So, if you have no idea how to do that, start researching that first. There are a ton of helpful articles on this site.

But very simply put, relate to her. Try to see where she’s coming from. Be genuinely interested in her, her thoughts, feelings, aspirations, stories, etc.

Convey to her that you understand and appreciate her perspective. Let her know where you align with her.  This will elicit the feeling of connection for most women.  But don’t be fake just to get in her pants.  Be real with her.  Most women will respect you more if you’re up front about your intentions for a purely physical connection.  Women want great sex too.

A better connection will also help her feel more comfortable with you. Most women need to feel comfortable in order to get off.


Create anticipation.

Most women want a strong, dominant man in the bedroom that knows how her body works. Show her that you can be that for her with verbal and nonverbal communication that expresses you are knowledgeable and confident. Have some bass in your voice and tell her you’ve been thinking about all the ways you want to take her.

Some other examples of ways to create anticipation with your words would be to tell her you want to make her pussy yours. Tell her exactly how you want her and use colorful detail. Tell her you want to make her cum so hard that she forgets her own name [or insert your own epic analogy here].

Then back up that dirty talk with some technique.

Learn more about how to dirty talk here.

I am neither a doctor nor a sexpert. I’m just a chick with a passion for orgasm. My mission is for women to get off more and more... and more.

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